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Road to Success… Master the. Day

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I just love the start of a new year. So much excitement to start something new or to starting over on a goal that has been eluding us. While I am till on the journey to success, I had paused on the blogging aspect of it.

Someone said success was not just about the end goal but the journey to get there. I can truly attest to that. I am definitely not the same person who started out. This is a very exciting process

Over the last few years of “remaking myself” and “studying to show myself approved” my biggest challenge has been “NOW”….. The importance of NOW.

The late Mohamed Ali said it well;     “Don’t count the days make the days count”

So did The late John Wooden; “ Make each day a masterpiece”

I cannot forget my mentor over the years, the late Jim Rohn who said; “finish the day before you start it.”

After you have decided on a goal and fully qualified WHY you want to achieve it, then worked out HOW you are going to do it, the real test it what you DO about it NOW, today.

Did the day count towards fulfilling your goal?

This little matter of now, has been my biggest challenge. You see i am travelling from a place of procrastination. This is indeed the biggest “thief of time”

So on my journey, I have met, worked with and observed my teachers and mentors on this matter of acting now. Can’t say I am totally over procrastinating, but I am aware and countering. I tell you that even in writing and posting this blog today, I am on it.

My challenge this year is to make every day count towards my goals…  A masterpiece day. My mindset is , I can and I will.

Do you have a challenge to overcome this year? Please share and let us hold each other accountable.

Love to the World

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“Now these three remain, Faith, Hope and Love but the greatest of these is Love.”
1 Corinthian 13: 13

Love, truly the greatest emotion and power source in the world but hardly used except for some friends and family. Can you imagine if we were to love our enemies?
I have read stories of people who have done this by loving the person who has committed serious crimes against them and the result was just mind blowing. Here we are talking of forgiveness and expressing kindness to someone who has done you wrong
It is said that harbouring unforgiveness actually caused diseases. This emotion affects the very organs of our body.
So I am looking at our world today where there is so much hate and unforgiveness. It is not a healthy place. I am not even talking about love for the planet itself where, instead of just exploiting it for resources, giving it some love would lead to us taking better care of it. I am.talking about love for the people of the World inspite of differences. Love would mean we try to understand each other’s point of view even if we don’t agree. Love would mean we listen to each other.
The more I think of it yes, Jesus was the greatest example of love this world has ever seen.
The way I see it, it is not easy but is absolutely necessary if things are to change.

” I will greet this day with Love in my heart”
Og Mandino ( The Greatest Secret in the World)

What do you think? Please share your thoughts.

Going for Gold – Three Things to Takeaway from the Olympics

 

As I watched the Olympics, there was so much reinforcement of what it takes to win. Three things stood out for me as I watched my country men and women win medal after medal. These are young people from ordinary background who have honed their talents and come out to represent themselves and their country on the world stage.

The first thing of note was that they had specific goals. Usain Bolt stood out here. He wanted to become a legend. As he defined it, he needed to win three gold medals in Rio2016 for the events he had already won in two prior Olympics. The “Triple Triple” he called it, never been done before for these events. Big goal, measurable and time specific. Announcement to the world. Totally committed. He had something to reach for, something to keep him focused for 4 years

The other thing I noticed was that athletes all had setbacks at some time, some worked through pain and overcame obstacles but they never lost focus. The goal of being at the Olympics and performing to the best of their ability kept them going.

The third thing of note was the team work. Athletes were competing but they were also working together and being there for each other. Bolt could not have met his goal completely without the other members of the relay team also performing well. In an interview with members of the team before the relay they all said they had to do their best so that Bolt could get his “Triple Triple”. I was really impressed by that. As a network marketer where team is so important, that’s the kind of commitment to the team and individual goal that is required to win

The saying goes that when the tide comes in, all boats rise. Everybody can benefit from this rising tide right now. Take away something from this Olympic experience to move you forward in your life journey.

Share with me what you have  learnt or reinforced from this Olympics.

The Power of Mindset

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I am still riding high from that win of the West Indies Cricket team in India of the 2016 World T20 Championship.
That the men’s team and the women’s team both won makes it all the more sweeter.
As I watched the video of the men’s team celebration in Eden Gardens and continuing on the bus onway to the hotel, it hit me. The power of Mindset and positive visualization.
One of the players and an aspiring DJ, made a song called “Champion” .. Wi a champion “. This song has been the theme song of the team and is done with a specific dance at every opportunity for celebration.
That stunning victory in the last over despite the odds, was inevitable. As self declared champions, they had to find a way to win. Hitting four sixes to win just had to happen.
As I watch, I declared it myself but just couldn’t believe it was happening.
In contrast I am noting that the Bangladesh team had the batsman with the highest score in the tournament and the bowler taking the most wickets in the tournament, yet they lost the match that would have taken them to the semifinals. It was a match which they lost in the final over. You could say they snatched defeat out of victory.
As a new comer, did they not have the belief? Did India the home team who defeat them have the stronger belief?
These are the things that came to me as I though about this Championship and the outcomes.
Having the right Mindset and positive vision of what you want to achieve , no matter what it looks like are absolutely essential to reaching your goals. As they say, see your self there, live the dream before it even happens. Give gratitude for it as if you already have it.
I may not have a song but I am really working at having that mindset and keeping a vision alive with gratitude.
How do you keep your vision and goals alive?

What’s your Dream?

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At the start of the year we set  big goals and we are excited at the prospect of a new year and a chance to get it right this time. We make the plans, begin to make the changes and set things in motion to  achieve success. We have great anticipation of achieving our goals this year.

Many times it never gets off the paper or get past January. At the first hiccup in the new year the dream gets side tracked as we get into crisis mode and that can carry on for the rest of the year. What seem to determine if we stay on track and not be derailed is our WHY

How badly do we want it?

Is it a burning desires or just a wish?

Are we at the point of total disgust with where we are? Are we where we say, something has to happen now?

 

The why has to be big enough to drive us into action every day.

Even better is when you are driven by the picture of the end result and you can see yourself there. In your mind’s eye you can see yourself:

-Looking and feeling good  when you lose the weight

– In the place you hope to visit and feel as if you are there.

– Living in the home you plan to buy.

A strong why can keep you persistent and consistent.

 

In other words its now having the mindset to achieve the goal. So how do we get the mindset.

I would say BELIIEVE that you can do it. When you can give thanks for it before you see it, that’s belief. At that point nothing can stop you.You can stay on track and overcome all obstacles.

What’s your dream?

Do you really believe it’s possible?

Then you can be on your way.

Don’t wait for 2016 to get  started again, if you got side tracked. Start now and hit the new year running.

Road to success – Fighting hard to refocus.

I have been watching a lot of cricket lately. Recently when one of the bowler delivered a “bad” ball and got hit for four, the commentator said that the bowler was losing his form just before he released the ball and he played the slow motion of the delivery to illustrate his point. He commented that the bowler’s head was leaning too much to the side and that affected his delivery. Now all this got me thinking about my own process. I have been thinking that I have been losing focus, or should I say form, recently and I am going off track with the goals that I have set.  We are well into the second 90 day period of the year and its so easy to veer off course especially as the time gets busy. Well its spring time the rains have begun to fall and its time to take  out some weeds and nurture the seeds that I have been planting.
One month into the second 90 day period of 2014, it is time to refocus. Should have done it before, but better late than never. I guess this is the time we get derailed from our goals if we are not careful.
So I have gone back to the dream board, which needs updating and refining. I have the  the goals for this 90 days in focus. Its do easy to get caught up with doing that you forget to feed the soul in order to sustain the successs. I am definitely losing my form in the regard and must make  time to  “sharpen the saw”
How do you stay focussed,

Road to Success….. Let go and Let God

I welcome the New Year and I say, let go and let God. What better way to start the New Year! I chose this word “trust” out of my little pan of words some weeks ago and just froze up. I knew what to write for sure but the question was, did I really believe it? Was I acting on it? So, I have been soul searching rather than writing. Truth is I have been working very hard and many times doubting the outcome or holding back because I was not sure.
Immediately I took out the word “trust”, I reached for a book I had read by Bob Proctor “ titled “You were Born Rich.” I went for the Chapter titled, Let go and let God. It’s interesting that, he said reread the chapter 100 times if you need to, it was that important.
It certainly helped me to refocus on what it meant to have faith in God and to the fact that doubt, fear and negative thought only serve to keep you back from reaching your goal. I guess in the process of working through where I really stood on this in a practical way, something must have happened. I stopped stressing and doubting and relaxed and really tried to be more in touch with what the spirit was guiding me to do, in other words, to let Go and let God. Amazing things happened in my business that I could not have predicted. Calls that I did not expect, free radio promotions and sales literally out of the blue. All I had to do was be ready to take advantage of it and I was.
So, I am starting the New Year with this in mind. When all the goal setting and planning is done it will be time to relax, not worry about how am I going to do all this or to doubt the outcome even before I start. Instead, I will move forward with firm faith that no matter what it looks like, in God I can let go because, as we also like to say, “ God is in Charge.”

“I know the plan I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11

Please drop below and share how you keep yourself grounded in faith